In the quietude of Lakeville, a community mourns the loss of a cherished soul, Jay Charles McMurray, whose departure leaves an indelible void in the hearts of those who knew him. As we come to terms with the passing of this beloved husband, father, and brother, the McMurray family grapples with the weight of grief, seeking solace in the memories of a life well-lived. Jay, born on March 30, 1962, in San Jose, CA, was the embodiment of resilience and dedication. His journey through life was marked by a commitment to family, a love for the outdoors, and an unwavering pursuit of knowledge and skill. The son of Ronald Lee and Patricia Ann McMurray, Jay’s early years laid the foundation for the remarkable man he would become.
Growing up in the scenic backdrop of Lake Wallenpaupack, Jay discovered a deep connection to the outdoors. An avid hunter and fisherman in his youth, he found solace in the natural beauty that surrounded him. The echoes of his laughter and the stories shared around the campfire are woven into the fabric of Lakeville’s landscape, a testament to the joy he found in the simple pleasures of life.
A graduate of Wallenpaupack Area High School, Jay’s talents extended beyond academics. In the realm of sports, he held numerous track and field records, leaving an indomitable mark on his alma mater. His passion for heavy machinery led him to Northampton Community College, where he earned a Certification in heavy machine operation, along with his CDL and Hazmat qualifications. From skid steers to dump trucks, Jay mastered every piece of heavy equipment, becoming a skilled operator in the construction industry.
However, Jay’s most significant achievements were not etched in records or certifications but in the love and pride he felt for his family. Married to Leann Hartill, Jay embraced fatherhood with unparalleled enthusiasm. His children – Richard Hartill, Erin McMurray, and Destiny McMurray – became the focal point of his life. Jay’s unwavering support and attendance at their events, from band concerts to dance recitals and baseball games, demonstrated a commitment to their happiness that knew no bounds. Jay’s infectious sense of humor and love for games created a warm and welcoming atmosphere in the McMurray household. His knack for storytelling and laughter became a cornerstone of family gatherings, creating lasting memories that will echo through generations. Amidst all of Jay’s accomplishments, he cherished nothing more than the love and joy derived from his family.
On December 17, 2023, the whispers of the wind over Lake Wallenpaupack carried the news of Jay’s passing. The McMurray family, joined by friends and well-wishers, mourned the loss of a remarkable soul. The void left by Jay’s absence is palpable, but the legacy of his love, kindness, and dedication continues to resonate in the hearts of those who were privileged to share their lives with him.
As the family navigates the delicate process of grieving, they have made a heartfelt request to honor Jay’s memory. Instead of flowers or donations to local charities, they invite the community to contribute to a GoFundMe account created for Destiny McMurray, Jay’s 15-year-old daughter. In a poignant tribute to Jay’s spirit, they aim to support Destiny’s college fund, recognizing her brilliance and potential.
Destiny, a gifted and bright young lady who scored perfectly on an Otis Lennon standardized test, aspires to become a teacher. The family, cognizant of the financial challenges that can impede educational pursuits, seeks to provide her with every opportunity to achieve her dreams. In this endeavor, they extend an invitation to friends, family, and the community at large to join hands in ensuring that Destiny’s path to college remains unhindered.
